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As a Schlumberger wife, I've always been told by my hubby to always be prepared for a transfer. I never took it seriously. I know the International Mobile title on him (International Mobile or IM means that an employee must be able to move anywhere in the world in short notice) means that we can never get too comfortable in one place, he can be transferred anywhere the company needs him to be. But then, I never expected 'short notice' means THIS short! We had just finished packing up, working our way to get comfortable in a place called Bangkok (oh, sorry, I never updated in this blog that we've moved to Bangkok.. hehe) now, he's off to Sudan pulak.. The first time he told me about the transfer I was shocked, I didn't know what to say, I was stunned. But slowly, I began to accept it, I know he didn't want this but he's willing to do it for the family. So sad. But the problem is once we've started a family, there are a lot of things to consider, such as the financial aspect, ya lah nowadays everything is all about money. I'm not saying we're doing this to be rich quickly, but we have to admit money is an important aspect, for example the time Lyssa was admitted into ICU, I wonder what will happen if it happened when Amy was born instead. (The bill for Lyssa's ICU treatment was 17k ok? And my cesarean was 10k) At that time we were just newlyweds, not much money and the company didn't cover much for delivery too since Asno was a local engineer not an IM (what a crap). Would we go up to the doctor and say "Doktor, boleh tak jangan masukkan anak saya dekat ICU.. kami tak cukup duit" sure cannot lah right? So, thinking about the pros and cons hubby dearest decided to go to Sudan and he'll just rotate to and fro from Sudan to Malaysia occasionally when he's on vacation. Now that we're in Malaysia, I feel I really miss our time in Vung Tau. To me, that's the nicest place I've been to, with a lot of beautiful memories for us. Nowadays I will always listen to this song my Dafi.. hehe.. Macam orang bercinta pulak.. but everytime I hear it, I will have tears in my eyes. The words feel like something my hubby would tell me. So enjoy the song ya..:) Dafi - Bila Terasa Rindu Apa agaknya khabarmu di sana? Hati terasa bagai tertinggal di situ Bila terasa rindu ku sebut namamu Jauh sekali hidup di sini berbeza Bila terasa rindu ku sebut namamu Terlintas di fikiran untuk meminggirkan saja huwaaa sedih2... :( Nina |
| Name April 5, 2008 11:56 AM PDT nina, aku plak rasa sedih.tapi betul la.kdg2 kene sacrife something utk get smthing...tapi aku rasa for sure nnti once semua dah ok, korang leh dok sama2 setempat relax2 tak yah carik duit bnyk2 mcm aku ni.penat la nak keje sampai tua...:p | ||
| nina April 6, 2008 01:10 AM PDT problemnya duit sentiasa takkan cukup kan.. maybe kena berani sacrifice sometimes, tak boleh sentiasa nak 'selamat' aje.. adakah patut cari kerja lain kah? :( | ||
| ana April 8, 2008 02:19 PM PDT ala nina sedih lak baca... sabar2 yer.. ..teringat quote prof reza bg smlm .. "how much money u dont need" .. | ||
| yus April 16, 2008 04:38 PM PDT Ala..ciannyer..so kat M'sia dok kat mana? skrg dah ada 2 princess ek?sama la kita..just to know u better, umo nina bape ek?rasanya macam lebih kurang je kite, yus kalau ikut thn 28 thn ni..dulu UTM ek?amik cos aper?hubby yus UTM gak petroleum engineer grade 2000. | ||
| samcun April 20, 2008 11:47 AM PDT nina!!!! aku pun nangis bila dengar lagu ni huhhuhuhu uwaaa!!! | ||
| Term papers December 1, 2009 11:40 AM PST I really enjoyed reading this article, It's always nice when you can not only be informed, but also entertained! I'm sure you had fun writing this article... | ||
| Term Papers December 9, 2009 01:22 PM PST Nice post. I really liked it.. Don't forget to update it regularly. I am looking for new updates dying to read more stuff from you. | ||
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